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4.3 The erotic schema in shibari: managing desire, context, and intention

Estimated reading time: 36 minutes.

A study of erotic desire in the shibari session, of the schemas the brain uses to interpret it, and of how context and intention make it possible to manage it.

4.3.1 Managing erotic desire

There is no foolproof method that guarantees the full satisfaction of erotic desire, but shibari is a valuable tool for exploring it from a different perspective.

Estimated reading time: 10 minutes.

ACCEDER: 4.3.1 Managing erotic desire

4.3.2 The procedural schema of desire: managing the session

4.3.2 The mental schema of desire

Hidden desire cannot be reached directly or quickly, and in an erotic interaction we would not want it to be. The system sekibaku (責縛) uses to manage the emotions of an erotic shibari session lets us go as far as we want, together, toward a shared experience.

Estimated reading time: 7 minutes.

ACCEDER: 4.3.2 The mental schema of desire

4.3.3 Our brain’s procedural schemas as a management mechanism in the shibari session

4.3.3 Desire in the erotic context

We study how the schemas our brain generates, when brought into the erotic shibari session, become a mechanism for managing desire.

Estimated reading time: 10 minutes.

ACCEDER: 4.3.3 Desire in the erotic context

4.3.4 Knowing, accepting, and satisfying yourself

We study intention—what moves us to act and what we seek in doing so—and why knowing and accepting it is the only way to satisfy ourselves on the erotic level.

Estimated reading time: 11 minutes.

ACCEDER: 4.3.4 Knowing, accepting, and satisfying yourself

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